“We become human only on leaving Eden, mature only in realizing that childhood is over. We come home to the fullness of our humanity only in owning and taking responsibility for present awareness as well as for the full measure of our memories and dreams. Graceful existence integrates present, past, and future.” –Sam Keen, To a Dancing God 
Sam Keen (born 1931) is an American author, professor, and philosopher best known for his exploration of questions regarding love, life, religion, and being a man in contemporary society. He also co-produced Faces of the Enemy, an award-winning PBS documentary; was the subject of a Bill Moyers’ television special in the early 1990s; and for 20 years served as a contributing editor at Psychology Today magazine. [He completed his undergraduate studies at Ursinus College in Collegeville, Pennsylvania, and later completed graduate degrees at Harvard University and Princeton University.–Wikipedia]
“The story is the basic tool for the formation of identity.
“A large part of our self-concept consists of the narrative by means of which we remember and relate our past experiences.
“Human life is rendered ultimately meaningful by being incorporated into a story.
“Telling stories is functionally equivalent to belief in God. **
“Once the individual recovers his or her history, she or he finds it is the story of every man.
“The more I know of myself, the more I recognize that nothing human is foreign to me. In the depth of each person’s biography lies the story of all man.”
Actually, telling our story strengthens our ego: “The very process leads the teller to become aware that he or she is a person with a unique history of triumph and tragedy, with as yet unfulfilled hopes and projects.”
**“In exploring the significance of the metaphor of the story, I will suggest that telling stories is functionally equivalent to belief in God, and, therefore, ‘the death of God’ is best understood as modern man’s inability to believe that human life is rendered ultimately meaningful by being incorporated into a story.” —To a Dancing God